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Marjorie Ingall

Marjorie Ingall is a parenting columnist for Tablet and a contributing writer at Self magazine. She has written for The New York Times, Glamour, Ms., Wired, and the late, lamented Sassy, where she was the senior writer and health editor. She is the author of several books including Hungry, written with the model Crystal Renn (Simon & Schuster, 2009), and is the former East Village Mamele columnist for The Forward. She can be reached at marjorie@tabletmag.com.


Recently by Marjorie Ingall

Family

Welcome Home?

My children are becoming German citizens, and I’m going nuts
By Marjorie Ingall | 7:00 AM Mar 8, 2010

Once upon a time there was a young rabbi named Ulrich. He lived with his beautiful wife and their adorable baby in Heidelberg, Germany, a city of poets and composers and philosophers. Ulrich’s city was surrounded by dark forests and nestled by a sparkling river. There was even a castle. Ulrich was happy there. His ...

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Family

Are You There, God? It’s Us.

Little people, big questions
By Marjorie Ingall | 7:00 AM Mar 1, 2010

We asked Lila, 7, Josie, 8, and Noemi, almost 5, a few questions: how do you picture God? Why does God allow evil in the world? Is God all-powerful?
You know, the little questions.
These imponderables may stump rabbis and philosophers, but children have their own ideas.

Family

Ad Men

After the testosterone-fueled commercial wasteland of the Super Bowl, Olympics spots show some love to women.
By Marjorie Ingall | 7:00 AM Feb 22, 2010

Parenting news has been pretty depressing lately. You may recall my little tznius-based prostitot freakout last week. But there was also the ongoing saga of the Baptist missionary kidnappers in Haiti; the reappearance of melamine-tainted milk in China; and the recalls of baby-squashing cribs, lead-tainted stuffed animals, and unpredictable Toyotas.
And going back a bit further, ...

Family

Tznius 2.0

As preteen pop stars play sexy, it’s time to rethink modesty
By Marjorie Ingall | 7:00 AM Feb 15, 2010

February has been a big month for prosti-tots, tiny demi-celebrities who dress like the ladies who used to ply their trade on the West Side Highway. Three-year-old Suri Cruise was seen out and about in electric red lipstick and custom-made red patent-leather Roger Vivier ankle-strap shoes. Rio’s Carnival parade on Sunday featured a 7-year-old samba ...

Sex & Body

Fat and Fabulous

Plus-size retail queen Deb Malkin insists that fashion isn’t only for the skinny
By Marjorie Ingall | 7:00 AM Feb 8, 2010

“Being fat is a key part of my identity,” says Deb Malkin, the owner of Re/Dress NYC, a vintage and resale boutique in Brooklyn for women size 12 and up. “It’s taken me years to be comfortable with my body and live fearlessly in it.” As the catwalks in Bryant Park and around the city ...

Family

Falling Down

How to talk to kids about death, in Haiti and at home
By Marjorie Ingall | 7:00 AM Feb 1, 2010

Last week, Maxie, my 5-year-old daughter, came home from school talking about the Haitian earthquake. “The houses fell on the people and they got squashed and now the children have no mommies,” she told me.
The previous week, I’d explained to Maxie and Josie, her 8-year-old sister, that there was an earthquake far away and ...

Family

Planet of the Helicopter Parents

Want an epic adventure? Try having kids in New York
By Marjorie Ingall | 7:00 AM Jan 25, 2010

In the spirit of Choose Your Own Adventure, the classic (and newly reissued) series from our childhood in which a single misstep could mean death by yeti, ghost, or Royal Bengal tiger, join us on this expedition of horror. At the bottom of each page, you’ll find several choices. Click on the one that appeals ...

Family

Schools of Thought

On Martin Luther King Day, remembering the advantages of a public-school—rather than Jewish day-school—education
By Marjorie Ingall | 7:00 AM Jan 18, 2010

Because I like to torture myself and revisit decisions long made, I often wonder whether we should have sent the girls to Jewish day school. I fell madly in love with a school called Hannah Senesh, in Brooklyn, a school I felt wasn’t hyper-competitive, grimly obsessed with “excellence,” insular, self-satisfied, or attractive to the kind ...

Books

My First Holocaust

The children’s books that traumatized a generation
By Marjorie Ingall | 7:00 AM Jan 11, 2010

Do you remember the Jewish books of your childhood? Many seemed to provide as much terror as pleasure. I was an easily traumatized child, so everything scared me. When Henny borrowed Ella’s fancy dress in All-of-a-Kind Family and got a stain on it, I felt sick with fear. (Sure, Henny dyed it with tea and ...

Family

Telling Tales

How to keep your kid from becoming a tattler
By Marjorie Ingall | 7:00 AM Jan 4, 2010

“Mom! Max is trying to put a booger on me!”
“Mom! Josie won’t let me play fairies with her!”
And so it goes. I’d like to tell you that time off from school means time spent baking gluten-free organic muffins and jamming joyfully with our family bluegrass band. But not so much. Intensive togetherness in our house ...